#52Ancestors | Travel


Stopping points on the Richmond’s route

My 4th great grandfather, Reuben Richmond, took his family on one heck of a road trip. In the 1860s. Via covered wagon.

Reuben, his wife, Sarah Jane Miller, and three children, Clinton Marshall, Joseph O. and Sarah Etta left their home in Glencoe, KY, in the late 1850s. It’s not known when they left, but it was after 1856, when Sarah Etta was born in Kentucky, but before 1858, when a 4th child, Mary, was born in Missouri. It is said that Mary was so frail her mother didn’t believe she would survive the trip and wouldn’t leave St. Louis until they had acquired a casket. The family was travelling by covered wagon drawn by oxen and leading one cow.

They arrived in Denver in 1859 and set up in a village there for a bit while the children attended a subscription school. It was here in Denver that Reuben met up with George Bruffey, with whom they joined on their way west and who documented their travels.


See source below

The Richmonds and George left Cache la Poudre outside Fort Collins on September 7, 1863. They traveled with a group of 47 men, 9 women and 14 children. They had with them 2 yoke oxen; some steers and heifers; 2 muzzle loading rifles; a Colt revolver; and flour, bacon, coffee, salt, 3 gallons of whiskey, beans and rice to last them a year. Take note, Oregon Trail players!

They traveled over the Laramie Plains to Fort Halleck where they stopped for two days to shoe the horses and oxen. They then joined up with the Mormon Trail at the Laramie River. They camped at Muddy Creek in the Salt Lake Basin and then moved on toward Soda Springs, where they met a group of people from Alder Gulch and decided to make that their destination.

On November 4th, they reached the Snake River where they had to row the wagons across. They arrived in Nevada City, MT on November 12th. At the time the city had 20 cabins. Daughter Sarah reported that the family stayed in an abandoned cabin until a new one could be built. Reuben later opened a blacksmith shop.

Mary Richmond did survive that trip, despite her mother’s worries. She grew up to marry August Wehrle and became my 3rd great grandmother.


Pioneer Trails and Trials Compiled by the Madison County History Association 1976. Entry for Richmond Family by Larry K. Jacobson

File:Oregon Trail reenactment – NARA – 286054.jpg. (2015, February 22). Wikimedia Commons, the free media repository. Retrieved 01:25, July 15, 2018




#52Ancestors | The Six Wives of James Baker Warner

Yep, I’m going rogue. I’ve struggled with some of the prompts, so I am just going to write about whichever ancestor strikes my fancy.

James Baker Warner is my 3rd great grandfather on my mom’s side. He was born June 22, 1879 to Mary Ann Baker and James Warner in Surrey England.1 He was the first of ten children. The family immigrated to Canada when he was 142, and then down to New Hampshire after 1901.

In 1903, at the age of 23, he marries Annie Hughes, age 22. It’s the first marriage for both of them. He is listed as a laborer.3 A stillborn son is born to them in August of 1904.4 In 1907, another son, James, is born, but he dies two month later of marasmus.5

The next record of James I have is his second marriage. I don’t have any record of Annie’s death or a divorce. In 1908, James marries my 3rd great grandmother, Sara Matilda Zutavern. They are married at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Chester, PA. He is working as a cotton finisher in Bergen, NJ at the time of their marriage.6 They settle in Bergen and over the next two years, have two children, including my 2nd great grandfather James William Warner. 7 Six year after their marriage, Sarah dies, leaving him with two small children.8


In the 1920 census,  he is working as a finisher at a silk mill and is listed with an Irene M Warner. Along with his two children is a third child, Edith D.9 She is older than his two children, so I suspect she is Irene’s daughter from a previous marriage. This is the only mention of Irene that I have. I have been unable to find a marriage record for James and Irene, or a death or divorce record. I also have been unable to track Edith further.

By 1928, James has moved to Virginia and married Ruth Virginia Nunnally. Their marriage record lists him as a widow.10 In the 1930 census they are living in Delaware, but he’s still working in the textile industry as a cotton finisher. Ruth’s son from her previous marriage is living with them.11 1940 finds them living in New Jersey where James is working as a foreman at a cotton mill.12 Ruth dies shortly after the census is taken.13

James makes his way back to Virginia and marries Lillian Ragan in 1949. This is the wife I have the most doubts regarding because their marriage certificate lists James as being a doctor. However, his age and the names of his parents fit. And Lillian is listed as working in the textile industry, the field James has worked in up to this point.14 They must divorce, because Lillian doesn’t die until 1987.15 However…

James marries one last time in 1953 in North Carolina. Clevra Glendolia Batchelor becomes his sixth and final wife.16 When James dies in 1966, she is mentioned in his obituary along with his daughter, Iola.17

The longest period of time (as an adult) James went without being married was 9 years. I don’t know if he was just the type of guy that needed a woman to take care of him or what, but he was certainly a serial husband!



  1. 1881 England Census [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2004. 
  2.  UK, Outward Passenger Lists, 1890-1960 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2012. 
  3. New Hampshire Death Records, 1654-1947, database with images, Family Search. Entry for Stillborn Warner, 4 Aug 1904; citing Manchester, New Hampshire, Bureau Vital Records and Health Statistics, Concord; FHL microfilm 2,131,878. 
  4.  New England Historical Genealogical Society; New Hampshire Bureau of Vital Records, Concord, New Hampshire; New Hampshire, Marriage and Divorce Records, 1659-1947. [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com 
  5.  New Hampshire, Death and Disinterment Records, 1754-1947 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2013. 
  6.  Pennsylvania, Marriages, 1852-1968 [database on-line]. Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2016. 
  7.  Pennsylvania and New Jersey, Church and Town Records, 1669-2013 [database on-line]. Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2011. 
  8.   Delaware County Daily Times – 29 May 1914. Chester, Pennsylvania. Newspapers.com [database online: accessed 20 Jan 2018]. 
  9.  1920 United States Federal Census [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2010. Images reproduced by FamilySearch. Year: 1920; Census Place: Easton Ward 3, Northampton, Pennsylvania; Roll: T625_1609; Page: 4A; Enumeration District: 110 
  10.  Virginia, Select Marriages, 1785-1940 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc, 2014. 
  11.  1930 United States Federal Census [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2002. Year: 1930; Census Place: Wilmington, New Castle, Delaware; Page: 17A; Enumeration District: 0040; FHL microfilm: 2340025 
  12.  1940 United States Federal Census [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2012. Year: 1940; Census Place: Millville, Cumberland, New Jersey; Roll: m-t0627-02327; Page: 2B; Enumeration District: 6-60. 
  13.  Virginia, Death Records, 1912-2014 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2015. 
  14.  Virginia, Marriage Records, 1936-2014 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2015. 
  15.  North Carolina, Death Indexes, 1908-2004 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2007. 
  16.  North Carolina, Marriage Records, 1741-2011 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2015. 
  17. Wilson Daily Times Thursday, April 5, 1973. Wilson, NC. Newspapers.com [database online: accessed 28 May 2018] 

#52Ancestors | Same Name

Yikes, I’m falling way behind on the posts. This week’s prompt, Same Name, could take many directions. I have so many people in my tree with the same name. I’ve got a string of William Fitzgeralds, James Warners and more. And while I could have written about them, I decided to instead write about my and my sister’s namesakes.

So the story goes that my mom didn’t know she was having twin daughters. My parents had decided on naming a baby girl “Wilma Jean” after my paternal grandmother (pictured on right), who died several years prior. Having entered the world first, my sister became Wilma Jean. And then I made a surprise entrance and my parents needed another name. They chose Mary Ellen, after my maternal grandmother (pictured on left). So despite us being twins, we have very un-matching names, which I have always appreciated.



#52Ancestors | Going to the Chapel

Going to the chapel…to view records! Back in 2015, my dad and I took a little road trip to Morris, IL to research his Fitzgerald and Keegan ancestors. During trip preparations I sought out all the places we would likely need to visit. I knew his family was Catholic and decided to email the local Catholic church to see if they had any records, and to my great delight, they did! I just had to make an appointment for the day we would be there and they would have someone there to pull the books out of the vault.

On the appointed date and time, we watched as the kind lady pulled the old parish register out of a fire proof vault and presented it to us for our perusal. We flipped to the known dates of birth and marriages to find those records first, then we perused the book looking for the Fitzgerald and Keegan names to find relatives. The back of the book also had a list of donations given by members at occasions such as Easter and Christmas

William Fitzgerald and Catherine Keegan were married on November 23, 1883 at Morris Catholic Church. Their witnesses were Patrick Keegan (her brother) and Hallie Lindsey. 1


Their son, William, was baptized on July 28, 1889. His sponsors were William McGuire and Ann Fitzgerald (his aunt). 2

Even though we had proof of birth and marriage before visiting the church, it was neat to see the original records for ourselves. I’m glad I took the time to find out if the records still existed and where they were stored. Just goes to show you, it doesn’t hurt to ask!

  1. Photo of  title page and marriage record taken by me, November 2015, at Immaculate Conception Catholic Parish, Morris, IL. 
  2.   Photo of  baptism record taken by me, November 2015, at Immaculate Conception Catholic Parish, Morris, IL. 

52 Ancestors | Another Language


Birth record of Francesco Carlo, 1880, Reggio Calabria, Italy

As I’ve traced my family further and further back, I’ve come across records in languages other than English. After the initial excitement of finding such a record comes the frustration of trying to translate it. Half the battle is deciphering the penmanship, and when the language is foreign, this can be more difficult.

I found the above birth record for my great grandfather, Frank DeCarlo (Francesco Carlo) simply by paging through the Archives for Personal Data Research in Italy. I have no idea how I even found the website but once I did, I clicked through to the records for Reggio Calabria until I found birth records (nati) for the town I knew he was likely born. And luckily for me, he was born in January, so I didn’t have to flip far until I found his record. The first step was to punch all the typed words into Google translate. Not so easy was trying to read the handwriting. I struggled with this for some time, even asking a friend fluent in Italian to help but she had trouble with the handwriting. Eventually, I found this helpful guide to translating Italian records. I still don’t know what all the writing at the end says, but it looks pretty standard from record to record, so I am hopeful it doesn’t contain crucial information.


Marriage of Hugh McKeegan and Margaret Cavanagh, 1855. 

Though I don’t have any French ancestors, some of my Irish ancestors lived in Quebec before coming to the United States. And that means records in French. Thankfully I can find these on Ancestry pretty easily. The handwriting again was a struggle and I admit it took many perusals of this record to figure out everything it said. My particular record was a little fuzzy, but I read a similar, more clearly written record to decipher the filler words. This guide was also helpful.

While records written in another language are challenging, they are that much more rewarding when you finally crack the code!


Italian record:  Antenati, Gli Archivi per la Ricerca Anagrafica. Archivio di Stato di Reggio Calabria, Stato civile italiano, Rosali, Nati, 1880, Immagine 4.  http://www.antenati.san.beniculturali.it/ (accessed 20 Mar, 2016).

French record: Ancestry.com. Quebec, Canada, Vital and Church Records (Drouin Collection), 1621-1968 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2008.

52 Ancestors | So Far Away


Photo, RMS Empress of Asia leaving Vancouver 1917. Gowen, Frank (Photographer). Wikimedia Commons (accessed 28 May, 2018)

My 3rd great aunt, Florence Mary Warner, was born in Battersea, Surrey, England in 1883.1 She was the 2nd of at least ten children born to Mary Ann Baker Warner and James Warner. At the age of eight, the family left Liverpool for Canada.2 They lived in Magog, Quebec for about nine years, then moved down to New Hampshire in the United States.3

Sometime between 1901 and 1910 Florence trained as a nurse and began her life of travel. The 1910 census finds her in Rochester, MN as a boarder with two other women. All three are employed as “trained nurses” at the hospital, which I suspect was part of the Mayo Clinic.4

Around 1914, Florence ventured even further from home. She went to China to serve as a missionary. On June 6th, 1920, she sailed from Shanghai, China aboard the RMS Empress of Asia. Her last residence was recorded as Nankin, China and her final destination was Manchester, NH.5 The ship stopped in Yokohama, Japan on 12 June, 1920 and arrived in Victoria, BC, Canada on 21 June, 1920.6

Florence spoke about her experience as a missionary in 1928 and though it was reported that she was planning to return to China as soon as possible, I have not found record that she did so.7 In 1930 she is living in New Jersey, employed as a nurse in a private home.8 Nine years later, her father’s obituary  mentions she survived him and was residing in Newport, RI and in 1954, when her sister, Katherine, dies, she is living in Westerly, RI.9 10 I lose track of her after this. To my knowledge she never married, instead dedicating her life to missionary work and nursing.



  1.  The National Archives of the UK (TNA); Kew, Surrey, England; Class: RG12; Piece: 582; Folio: 61; Page: 36. Ancestry.com. 1891 England Census [database on-line]. 
  2.  Ancestry.com. UK, Outward Passenger Lists, 1890-1960 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2012. 
  3.  Ancestry.com. 1930 United States Federal Census [database on-line].Year: 1930; Census Place: Plainfield, Union, New Jersey; Page: 25A; Enumeration District: 0113 
  4.  Ancestry.com. 1910 United States Federal Census [database on-line]. Year: 1910; Census Place: Rochester Ward 2, Olmsted, Minnesota; Roll: T624_713; Page: 10A; Enumeration District: 0115; FHL microfilm: 1374726 
  5.  Ancestry.com. Washington, Passenger and Crew Lists, 1882-1965 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2006. 
  6.  Ancestry.com. Canadian Passenger Lists, 1865-1935 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2010. 
  7. The Courier-News Missionary Nurse Describes Work In Chinese Hospitals. 27 Jan, 1928, pg 7. Online database, Newspapers.com (accessed 28 May 2018). 
  8.  Ancestry.com. 1930 United States Federal Census [database on-line].Year: 1930; Census Place: Plainfield, Union, New Jersey; Page: 25A; Enumeration District: 0113 
  9. Union Leader (City Edition), Manchester, NH. Deaths entry for James Warner. 23 Oct, 1939, pg 12. From the Archives of Manchester City Library. 
  10. The Portsmouth Herald, Portsmouth, NH.  Mrs. K. A. Butterworth. 12 Aug, 1954, pg 3. Online database, Newspapers.com (accessed 28 Apr, 2018). 

#52Ancestors | Bachelor


The prompt for the week was actually “Maiden Aunt” but I seem to know more about my bachelor uncles, so meet my handsome Uncle Bob.

Robert Spencer Seyler was born April 8, 1925 to Sarah and Amos Seyler.1 At the age of 18, he joined the Army and served in France, Germany and Central Europe. He returned to the US in April of 1946 aboard the SS Mahoney City Victory ship.2 He moved back to the family ranch lived there until his death in 1995.

He loved to fish and hunt. I remember visiting his house as a child and loving how old timey it felt there. There was an outhouse and also a water pump outside that we thought was the neatest thing. We would drive around the ranch and down to the river. I remember playing with the skipper bugs in the stream that ran outside the house. He also had cows on the ranch and he called one of them “Hot Cakes” because she liked to eat the pancakes he made and would come running for them.

A few years ago my dad and I visited the ranch and found the old house has been given new life. The new owner of the ranch disassembled the old house and used the wood to build a newer cottage close to the old house site. 3


  1.  Montana Department of Public Health and Human Services; Helena, Montana; Montana, Birth Index, 1920-1986; online database Ancestry.com. Montana, Birth Index, 1870-1986 (accessed 8 April 2018). 
  2.  Butte Montana Standard Overeas Veteran Return Home. 9 Apr 1946, page 1.  Online database, Newspapers.com (accessed 12 Feb, 2016). 
  3. Old house photo from Hope Mommer New house photo taken by me, 2016. 

#52Ancestors | The Old Homestead


For this week’s prompt, The Old Homestead, I chose the homestead of Robert Dempsey, who I mentioned when I wrote about his wife, Margaret. Robert wore many hats: horse trader, Indian translator, pioneer, government scout and more. He settled outside Twin Bridges and owned several plots of land. He acquired this particular homestead in the  1850s and built the cabin pictured above. The land is located between the Big Hole and Beaverhead Rivers.1

When his daugther, Maggie, married John Marshall, Robert gave them this land and cabin as a wedding present. Their descendants still live on this land and a few years ago, my dad and I visited the cabin. The cabin is one room only, but has been updated.




  1.  Mommer, Hope. Look Out West! Here Come Robert Dempsey 1848-1908. Chicago, Adams Press, 1994. page 77. Print 

#52Ancestors | Misfortune

The theme for week 12 is “Misfortune.” Each time I think about misfortune in my family tree, I come back to the family of John and Mary (Keegan) Meins.

Mary Keegan was my 3rd great aunt, born in 1858 to Hugh and Margaret (Cavanagh) Keegan. At the age of 22, she married John Meins in Morris, IL.1 They had three children together in Illinois. In 1890, the family moved to Sand Coulee, MT with Mary’s parents and the majority of her siblings.2  I believe many of them worked in the mines there.

They had another son in 1893. Three years later another child was born, but died two months later of “inflammation of the bowels.”3 Next came another son, and then, in 1901, a daughter.

Grace E. Meins was born January 15, 1901. Less than two week later, her mother was dead.4


Her obituary begins “Sadness settled over this community when the word was passed that Mrs. Mary Meins had gone over the dark rive of death.” It explains that she had pneumonia and when complications developed, an operation was attempted, but failed. She died surrounded by her family. On her death bed, she “gave her babe to her sister, Mrs. Louis King.” The last sentence of the obituary is perhaps the most heart wrenching: “There were no dry eyes in that large assembly of people who went to pay their last respects to the mother, when they saw the great grief of the children, and the little boy of 4 inquiring of his papa where they were taking his mamma.”5 Please pass the Kleenex.

So little Grace is left with her aunt, Martha (Keegan) King. Grace was sickly at first and her father visited.  A year later, John moves with the two younger boys to Renton, WA for “a remunerative situation.”6 The older children stayed with their grandmother, I suspect until her death, sometime before 1910. By 1910, little Grace and her aunt, along with her siblings, are all in the Renton, WA area, though Grace never joined her father again.

Martha King never had her own children, but she raised Grace along with Grace’s cousin, William Fitzgerald, my great-grandfather.

While none of the deaths in my tree would be considered fortunate, Mary (Keegan) Meins stands out as one of the saddest.


  1. Ancestry.com. Illinois, County Marriage Records, 1800-1940 [database on-line]. Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2016. Original data: Marriage RecordsIllinois Marriages. Various Illinois County collections. 
  2. Morris Herald, May 23, 1890 page 8, column 1, roll 19; index to microfilm, Morris Public Library. 
  3. Great Falls Weekly Tribune, June 5, 1896, pg 6, image 6. Database on Chronicling America. (chroniclingamerica.loc.gov, accessed March 24, 2018). 
  4. Great Falls Tribune, Jan 27, 1901, pg 12. (www.newspapers.com, accessed Nov 12, 2017) 
  5. Great Falls Tribune, Jan 31, 1901, pg 3. (www.newspapers.com, accessed Nov 12, 2017) 
  6. Great Falls Tribune, Feb 8, 1902, pg 3. (www.newspapers.com, accessed Nov 12, 2017) 

#52Ancestors | Strong Woman


Marriage record of Robert Dempsey and Margaret

In honor of Women’s History Month, the prompt this week is Strong Woman. I chose my 4th great grandmother, Margaret Bright Star Dempsey.


Margaret, a member of the Shoshone-Bannock tribe, was born in 1830 as “Bright Star.” Apparently betrothed at birth, she ran away from home several times once she came of age. The third and final time she left home, she took her sister, “Guerra” with her. They were eventually found by my 3x great grandfather, Robert Dempsey. Robert worked as an “Indian trade” and even served as a translator. He took in the two young women, naming one them after his mother back in Ireland, Margaret. “Guerra” kept her name and was taken in by Johnny Grant.1

At the time, Robert had another Bannock woman at home, Ann. Margaret joined them. Robert was a trader and often on the move. The family settled around Fort Hall, where the women could even go visit the families they left behind.

In 1853, Margaret gave birth to their first child, whom Robert also named Margaret. A few weeks later, Ann gave birth to another daughter, Elizabeth.  A year later, Ann and baby Elizabeth left the Dempseys to live with Johnny O’Donnell, a friend of the family. After Ann left, Margaret was often alone when Robert left for his trading business.

Over the years, Margaret would give birth to 7 more children, including my 3rd great grandmother, Jane. She and Robert also adopted three other children (2 of Johnny O’Donnell’s and 1 of Johnny Grant’s).

In addition to rearing children, Margaret also had to put up with the many visitors her husband invited over to their ranch. Granville Stuart recounted this incident that occurred on June 15, 1861 in his journals: 2

“Today I received a visit from Johnny Carr and Frank Newell. They told me of a fierce single combat they had witnessed up at the Dempsey’s between Mrs. Dempsey and Charles Allen. Mrs. Dempsey was busy at the woodpile, chopping the day’s supply, when Charlie, “half-shot” came along and began to issue orders. Right there the fight began. Mrs. Dempsey landed away with the axe, but missed. Thereupon Charlie grabbed for the lady’s hair. His aim was more certain and he had one hand full, whereupon the lady lit in with both hands and in two seconds Charlie’s face looked like he had had an encounter with a wildcat. This desperate onslaught caused him to loose hold on her hair. She grabbed a stick of wood and used it with such good effect that she put the enemy to flight, but not until she had blacked both eyes, knocked out a tooth and scratched his face until his best friend would fail to recognize him. Mrs. Dempsey is known in these parts to be a lady of uncertain temper,  but “more power to her elbow,” say we all, for who could put up with the gang of drunken loafers that hang around Dempsey’s without losing their temper.” 



In 1876, a travelling priest came through the area and Robert and Margaret were finally joined in marriage.3

On January 6, 1880, Margaret died of pneumonia.4 She was buried within the family plot. A stone marks the site today.5

I think Margaret was a strong woman because she had the bravery to leave her family and essentially join another culture. It couldn’t have been easy living on the wild frontier with a who husband traveled a lot, often leaving her behind to raise their own children, and the children of others, on her own. And when he was home, she had to put up with the unsavory people he brought with him.




  1. Mommer, Hope. Look Out West! Here Come Robert Dempsey 1848-1908. Chicago, Adams Press, 1994. Print. 
  2. Stuart, Granville. Forty Years on the Frontier as Seen in the Journals and Reminiscences of Granville Stuart, Gold-miner, Trader, Merchant, Rancher and Politician. U of Nebraska Press, 1925. Google Books. Web.  10 March 2018. http://books.google.com. 
  3. Marriage record from the files of Hope Mommer. Photo taken by me on 25 Jul 2016. 
  4. Ancestry.com. U.S. Federal Census Mortality Schedules, 1850-1885 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2010. 
  5. Photo of burial site taken by me 25 Jul 2016.